The Secret to Playing Relaxed Golf
Summary: Golf anxiety can derail even the most skilled players, particularly in high-pressure moments like the 18th hole. Anxiety leads to tension, shaky movements, and overthinking, which negatively affect performance. By learning to relax through techniques like deep breathing or meditation, focusing on the process rather than the outcome.
Sinking a putt on the 18th hole, just when you need it most, can be challenging.
As all golfers know, anxiety is your enemy on the golf course…
Anxiety causes your body to be tense or shaky. Anxiety forces your shot off line, throws off your approach shot and, in the worst case, could cause you to yip when you putt.
Anxiety is not those slight nerves or butterflies in your stomach, but that overwhelming feeling where you can’t focus. When you are anxious, your thoughts are primarily on all the ‘what ifs’.
It is impossible to hit critical shots well when anxiety is causing havock.
Can you Relate to the Experience of Nikki T…
Nikki was having a solid round but so was Nikki’s rival.
Nikki’s rival trailed her by one stroke from the middle of the round up until the 18th hole.
Nikki’s rival shot 1-over on the final hole.
Nikki was nervous as she stepped to the tee on a par-4 but still put the ball in good position for her approach shot.
Two shots later, Nikki was faced with a 10-foot putt.
Nikki started feeling her body tense up and her heart race.
Nikki started to contemplate missing the putt.
Nikki worried she wouldn’t be able to close out the tournament and was overwhelmed by the enormity of the moment.
Nikki took longer than usual as she stood over the ball.
As Nikki pulled back the putter, she could feel her body tighten.
Nikki pushed the putt wide to the right.
It took four more putts before she found the bottom of the cup.
Nikki let the victory slip through her hands all because she allowed her anxiety to interfere with her game.
To sink the final winning putt, hit a great tee shot or set yourself up with a well-placed approach shot, you need to be semi-relaxed.
Relaxation is the Key to Performance
Golfer Anirban Lahiri knows it…
Lahiri has had success on both the Professional Golf Tour of India (11 wins) and the Asian Tour (7 wins). Lahiri wants his success to translate to playing well on the PGA Tour.
After narrowly missing out on qualifying for the 2017 US Open, Lahiri realized, if he is to be successful on the PGA Tour, he needs to learn to relax when the pressure is on.
Instead of sulking or being hard on himself, Lahiri chose to learn how to meditate to quiet his mind and relax so he can focus when needed in tournaments.
Mediation is a form of relaxation that utilizes breathing techniques to calm the body and mind.
Lahiri believes that his new-found ability to relax his body and calm his mind will help him deal with the pressure that comes along with playing on the PGA Tour.
LAHIRI: “There are so many times when I can feel the nerves on the 18th hole and my heart beating fast… [Meditation] allows me to just ground myself and center myself and then say ‘okay what’s my job at hand? What do I need to do?’ and then you do that.”
Meditation is only one form of relaxation. If you find a form of relaxation that works for you on the golf course, your game will improve dramatically.
Relax Your body and Mind
Tune into your breathing – Your body and mind work in unison.
Deep breathing helps your body relax and quiets your mind.
Focus your attention on the air slowly filling your lungs then exiting your body.
Take several deep breaths to increase the effectiveness of this strategy.
By focusing on your breathing, you take your mind off of the pressure of the situation.
5 Tips to Handle Anxiety on the Golf Course
1. Recognize Anxiety Early
Understand the difference between mild nerves and overwhelming anxiety. Anxiety causes tension, shakiness, and a lack of focus, which can sabotage key shots.
2. Use Relaxation Techniques
Incorporate relaxation strategies such as deep breathing, meditation, or visualization to calm the body and mind. Relaxation is essential for executing precise shots under pressure.
3. Focus on the Process, Not the Outcome
Shift your attention from “what if I miss?” to the task at hand—your setup, alignment, and execution. Concentrating on the process reduces worry and improves performance.
4. Prepare for Pressure Situations
Mentally rehearse high-stakes moments during practice. Visualizing success in challenging situations helps you remain calm and confident during actual competition.
5. Center Yourself Before Key Shots
Pause, take deep breaths, and ground yourself before critical shots. Golfers like Anirban Lahiri emphasize centering the mind and body to handle pressure effectively.
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FAQ: Overcoming Anxiety on The Course
Q: How does anxiety affect golf performance?
A: Anxiety creates tension, shaky movements, and intrusive “what if” thoughts, making it difficult to execute precise shots.
Q: What are effective relaxation strategies for golfers?
A: Deep breathing, meditation, visualization, and pre-shot routines help calm the mind and body.
Q: How can I stay calm during high-pressure shots?
A: Center yourself by taking deep breaths, focusing on the process, and visualizing successful execution.
Q: Can mental preparation improve performance under pressure?
A: Yes, practicing and mentally rehearsing high-stakes situations helps golfers stay confident and focused during actual competition.
Q: Is it normal to feel nervous on the last hole?
A: Yes, even professional golfers experience nerves. The key is learning how to manage and channel anxiety into focus and composure.
Dr. Patrick Cohn is an expert mental performance coach who has helped athletes for over 30 years enhance their performance. Dr. Cohn earned a master’s degree in sports psychology from CSUF and a Ph.D. from the University of Virginia, specializing in Applied Sports Psychology.